backstory: 20 month long engagement, wedding is next Saturday. I asked both parents for names back in February and told them they could invite whoever they wanted. His parents provided everything on their end, mime did not. I had to track down all the extended family I knew he would want and sent them STD's and invites. I got in a financial pickle with one last balance and he bailed me out last week. I won't talk #'s but it was nothing to sneeze at.
Now it seems he's asking me several times daily who has cancelled, who is coming still and if there'a any room for more. I've already done the seating chart, paid the venue and catering off entirely, ordered escort cards, and explained until I'm blue in the face how rude and socially unacceptable inviting people 0 days out seems. He keeps countering with hurt feelings, better to be thought of at all, etc. I would have invited anyone he wanted the 1st week of June when invites went out but he didn't help me out. I feel this is ultimately a reflection on me and would rather eat the 10 seats of people that had to cancel last minute. He wants to invite people to fill those seats because there's room. I am so embarrassed. He's pushing hard.
WWYD?
