I have decided to get ready at my fiancees grandparents house, for space reason, my mother smokes in her house,alot, and i dont want to smell like that all day(because she will be smoking that day, and a hell of a lot more, and she is the kind of person that thinks that if it bugs me i should go outside while shes smoking not her),and for the simple fact that they have a gorgeous house, it will make for very nice pictures. and my mother is extremely upset now (this isnt the frst time she's gotten angry about something that we see as minor, and the last few times she stopped talking to us for a while....) she has, a huge house but no free space, the bathroom there is nowheres near enough room for my dress,or me (i will be 7 months pregnant by then)if i have to go to the bathroom or get ready in the bathroom, and frankly, nothing in the house matches and just wont look as nice in pictures. what im asking is, am i right to be angry that shes so upset and angry. it seems anything that we don't do her way,or she looses control over, she gets angry.what would you ladys do to deal with this situation? we've told her shes allowed to get ready with us there, and i dont see how its any different then getting ready in a bridal suite. she tells me its my familys time not his familys time, but they are all more then welcome to come there and get ready with us, but she doesnt want to she wont be "comfortable". can't wait for this all tojust be over and shes the number one reason, because of events like this.
help please, advice anything!