I have to say something or I will go insane.
While at his bachelor party this weekend, FI's little brother told FI that his mom said that when we have kids, the first weekend we leave the baby with her, she's getting him/her baptized.
I'm kind of pissed. It seems so disrespectful, when we have made it clear that we are raising our children to have open minds, and will let them make their own decisions about religion, including answering any questions they might have and taking them to any church services that they're interested in. We don't believe in baptizing children (no offense to people to do this) since we want our kids to have a choice - which neither of us had.
So basically, she screwed herself out of ever being alone with our future kids.