I have asked one of my girls to be my MOH. I spoke to her the other day and asked her to come with me to a bridal shop to just check it out and see if thats somewhere we want to go to get the dresses. She told me that theres not really a need to go look at places now since the wedding isnt until next year. I want to shop around now so I wont have to stress closer to the date. I like to get things done ahead of time plus I understand that it takes around 3 mos for the dresses to be delivered plus make alterations close to the date if needed. I want to give myself room for error if necessary. The actual measurements wont take place until early september. She is 4 1/2 mos pregnant and I think that I may have made a mistake with making her my MOH because that is a big responsibility and I know she is not going to want to do any running around with or without me especially as she gets further along in her pregnancy. Not to mention that she wont be able to do too much right after the baby either. One of my other bridesmaids is willing to go anywhere with me and went with me to check out one of the bridal shops and we got a lot of great feedback and prices from them.
How do I go about changing MOH's??? I just feel that I would be putting too much responsibility on my current MOH considering that she has a baby on the way. I understand because I have 3 myself. I need to know if it would be wrong ethically to switch positions for MOH....
LIBBI