I've run into a little dilemma with the bridal shower. My shower isn't until June 2nd, but my sister (and MOH) is really on the ball and has sent out the invites (RSVPs are coming in) and bought the decorations and planned the food. The issue: she has expressed some frustrations that none of the other bridesmaids have chipped in on the cost and is "afraid" to ask them. I told her that we're all students and/or just graduating from grad school so I understand money is tight. My bridesmaids are pretty easy going and I"m sure if my sister asked them to chip in a few bucks they would be more than happy to.
MOH has asked if I could maybe ask the other BMs to pay up, and my mom has backed her up. However, I don't believe this is an issue I should get invovled in? A bridal shower is a priviidge (sp?) and I'm so happy my girls have decided to throw me one in the first place. I would never want my BMs to think I expect them to shell out money they may or may not have.
What are your thoughts? Do you think I should stay out of this one or try to be a liason between my sister and the other girls?
