Getting married 11/16/12 in Spring Lake, NJ. I had my eye on an officiant but 550 dollars for the ceremony and rehearsal is just a bit much for us! All of the other officiants I have found online call themselves "affordable" and lo and behold "affordable" to them is almost $500! I'm sure its affordable for some people but not for us. I am sure that people that charge this much work hard at what they do, but we decided to have an actual wedding last minute and are just trying to get the funds up now to have what we want. We would like someone with a sense of humor and down to earth like we are. I'm about to ask my fiancee's aunt to get ordained. Is what I am looking for just not out there? Anyone use anyone that fits the criteria? It'd be nice to have someone with some sort of experience. Thanks so very much bc this is stressing me out!