We want to have a simple, relaxed wedding. We don't want to have brides family sit on one side and grooms on another because he's going to have like 10 people there and I'm going to have more like 100. We just want people to sit wherever they want. We are also probably just going to have just a regular cermony and no mass included. Are ushers necessary at a Catholic wedding? I've never been to a wedding where there aren't any ushers, but I just don't see the need for them. Also I imagine the priest will need at least one altar boy. Do we have to provide one or will the church provide one?