I could really use some help with ideas on engagement parties. I really just want to do a small get together with our parents, attendants, and a few friends. Is it ok to have it at a restaurant and have people pay for there own food/drinks? If its just a come and go as you want type of thing? I just want to have fun with our friends and celebrate with out it being a huge expense? Any ideas on restaurants or lounges that could be fun? Thanks so much for opinions and advice:)))