I am throwing a shower for one of my best friends and I have everything planned except for what to do AT THE SHOWER! I need some ideas from people please. The Bride has told me that NO GAMES ARE ALLOWED at the shower because she thinks they are dumb. i realize that shower games ar corney, but they are icbreakers and fill the time. We are hosting the shower at a hotel in a private room and will be having appetizers catered through the hotel. I had an idea of doing a wine tasting but it will not be allowed since the hotel required us to order everything through them. The shower is a "beach theme" as it is a destination wedding. Anyone have some ideas from showers they have been to?