After months of trying to decide on a wedding date. My fiance decides that he really wants to get married on January 20th, 2013. Our anniversary is in January, therefore he feels that January is an important month for us. I really want to have our wedding in a month that is warm. I am not opposed to January 20th, however I am really nervous about inclement weather. I'm confused and I feel like we just took 10 steps forward yet took 15 steps backwards. Any suggestions? Help!