I am preparing to get save the dates sent out. I have a large family with a lot of small children. I was going to do a cut off age. My issue with the cut off age is that several families have kids that one or two of their children will be invited but one or two will be left out. I am ok doing this because my family understands that it is difficult to invite everyone. Only problem is how do I address the invites and all? How do I put that only certian children are invited from one particular family? Has anybody run into this problem?? Any advice is greatly appreciated!!