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Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?

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    Well, any. That was gross.
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    Hmm, the parents don't like FI?  Did they make him dress up like a little girl and rename him Betty?  Maybe they just wanted another daughter. Jeez.
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    Stop talking about sex you wankers. This is a serious  board and must only have serious things!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:6455126d-0f43-47d9-8261-c647d7da43e4">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride? : So tell us, does your fiance have a good relationship with his parents? Right now, I'm thinking no. Am I correct? I mean, sister gets the good stuff and he doesn't get jack? Hmmmm, maybe since they don't like their son very much, there's no reason for them to like you either. Right?
    Posted by Champagne Supernova[/QUOTE]

    I'm thinking you might be right. I honestly don't think it's as much about me as it is about him.
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    Im really glad I joined this board before the asslicking initiation began...
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:87943a31-29f6-45f1-b20b-02714a3a6beb">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Well, any. That was gross.
    Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

    <div>I'm a big fan of the shock factor. In general, not in regards to asslicking. That's something you need to warn the other person about first.</div>
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    1) Guest List.  Give them a dead-line.  Explain that if they do not give you a list, you will not know who to invite and will invite no one they know.  My MIL is a total flake and had problems with this.  So I also had to give a deadline a month before I actually wanted the list... and had to explain that guest list meant first and last names of every person that they wanted to invite and an address. 

    2) Sorry.  While it is a bummer that they are not offering up thousands of dollars... you can't really be mad about this. 

    We had our rehearsal dinner at Pizza Hut in their private party room.  That was tasty and cost-effective. 
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    If these people are such pricks why would you want their money anyway?  Honest question.
    panther
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    Burger- I'm curious, what is the 84 in your SN for?
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:9c8c41f6-b0a3-4bc0-a38e-c261c12a7ae7">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Burger- I'm curious, what is the 84 in your SN for?
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    <div>I bet it's how many cheeseburgers she can eat in under 20 minutes. </div>
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:4b28bcb6-0d54-441a-8abd-2ef283351316">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Stop talking about sex you wankers. This is a serious  board and must only have <strong>serious things!
    </strong>Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

    Evil things?

    I can't remember what poster said that, but it remains my favorite. STOP SAYING EVIL THINGS!
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    Well, that's less impressive.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:b320d0d1-8575-4fa6-af8f-41a075645609">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]If these people are such pricks why would you want their money anyway?  Honest question.
    Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

    Good question. I don't really want their money. There was time when I thought we needed it, but after they said no, we rearranged some things and are fine with what we are going with now.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:475f34ff-66fe-4bc1-8ad2-147f74e7c11b">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride? : I bet it's how many cheeseburgers she can eat in under 20 minutes. 
    Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]
    That would make her my best friend.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    You're fine now?  Or pissed?  I'm confused.

    Maybe you need to get laid more.
    panther
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:c5c311bb-ed0f-4891-8a1a-68de63332a93">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride? : That would make her my best friend.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    <div>Right? I'm bummed out now that I know it's not.</div>
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:3e8beaaa-f936-45ee-8402-0ab5bb8a157d">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Im really glad I joined this board before the asslicking initiation began...
    Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

    Amen.
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    I am fine with our rehearsal dinner plans with out their money. I'm still a little bummed that they couldn't contribute, but that's not the only reason that I'm pissed at them.

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    You guys seem to talk about sex alot. Is this like the sex board or something?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:9f9af9c4-ed41-46a4-9d9c-c23cb70424c0">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am fine with our rehearsal dinner plans with out their money. I'm still a little bummed that they couldn't contribute, but that's not the only reason that I'm pissed at them.
    Posted by burgergrl84[/QUOTE]
    Maybe, instead of being pissed, why not try to work on your relationship with them (your being you and your FI), for no other reason but to have a healthy relationship with his parents.
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    Why is everyone pretending they don't like the asslicking? Whateva, beyotches.

    Also, can someone please tell me what snarky means?
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    Uh-oh, someone invoked the Alot.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:9f9af9c4-ed41-46a4-9d9c-c23cb70424c0">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I am fine with our rehearsal dinner plans with out their money. I'm still a little bummed that they couldn't contribute, but that's not the only reason that I'm pissed at them.
    Posted by burgergrl84[/QUOTE]
    You need to realize they are who they are.  It sounds like they've always been pretty shitty to your FI, so they're not going to change.  Are you prepared to live with that for the rest of your life? 

    You can't change how they're going to act, but you can change your reactions.  If you know they're jackasses don't let them get to you.  You'll be a much happier person when you stop allowing them to control your emotions.
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    Just call me "Brothel"
    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    What is this sex thing you guys always speak of? After the wedding H and I took vows to remain abstinent until our vow renewal in 2050.
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    @betrothed - you are so right. I've always been a hot head. I think I need to just learn to control myself and let everything else go.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:e42014e8-daea-4e38-95b7-005fa21332c1">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]You guys seem to talk about sex alot. Is this like the sex board or something?
    Posted by burgergrl84[/QUOTE]

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    kd.joseph's wish is my command
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    Just call me "Brothel"
    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
    my read shelf:
    Betrothed 123's book recommendations, favorite quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_this-pissed-off-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a5a7ba71-3d5e-42d4-b16b-03e674c4de39Post:75ab1993-a4e7-4ea9-a109-a01fe3c23308">Re: Is this where we go if we are a pissed off bride?</a>:
    [QUOTE]What is this sex thing you guys always speak of? After the wedding H and I took vows to remain abstinent until our vow renewal in 2050.
    Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

    Are you pregnant with baby Jesus then?
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