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OK....So uh a little bit of venting going on here.....I feel so frustrated right now and I have nobody to talk to, that is either going through the same thing as I am or understands...First let me tell you my situation, I have a big house hold. We all live together as a family meaning my dad, mom, fiance and yes my dad 's mother (GRANDMA). Not mention whose room is right next to mine, which is hard enough to deal with. LOL And don't say just move out...yeah right in this economy?
Here's the deal....been engaged since October last year and the wedding is October this year, everything so far has been going smoothly except for ordering my dress. The bridal store screwed up the color of the trim so they had redo it, but that is another post I'll write, anyways, I just got the dress in its right this time yeah! So I hope you can understand that I've been a little stressed for a couple of months. When the dress came in my mom on vacation so she is not here to help me try it on so I asked a friend who took pictures so I could see what I looked like.
I sent the pics to my family who are out of state who I will not see till the wedding,
my grandma got an email from my aunt saying she got the pics and she's excited..
apparently that pissed off my grandma so she came in my room asking for me standing there and have me explain to here why everyone else got to see...here is the kicker... I did show here the dress right when it came in, I took a picture on my phone and showed it to her, so she did see it she just did not see it on me. Which is understandable I guess but she can't wait for a f*cking week till my mom gets back so they could both see it? Then she stands there and scolds me in front of my FI and I know shes gonna bitch about it to my dad and I have to hear from him like I always do. And I know I've been told to get her involved and I've been trying but she is so negative and she says hurtful things to me and she wonders why I don't want to talk to here a lot. (She is worse than my Mother!) My mom has been great about the whole wedding planning...To top it all off, I walk in the kitchen just to eat and my grandma says to me "Guess you and John don't have to worry about getting married cause the end of the world is coming this year" WTF!!! How can you say that to your only granddaughter who is stressed enough and doing all she can not to go BRIDEZILLA on your ass. And I'm tired of hearing just because shes old give her a break, shes just like that..no...that's no excuse to be negative and hurtful on something that means a lot to me + she is not paying for anything my parents are. And trust me its not just the wedding she only has three grandchildren and I'm the only girl and the oldest...the others want nothing to do with her because shes such a downer. Now don't read this and think that I don't love her, of course I do, that's not the point. The point is I've Had It Up To Here....with Grandma.
Anyways who has the similar problem...anybody? Talk to me about it...love to hear it...