There are three girls on my bridal party who cannot agree on the plans for the stagette and I keep getting dragged in. The MOH lives near me and is heading the planning, while the other two live out of town and apparently shoot down all her ideas and "don't want to do anything fun". This has been going on for nearly two months, during which I have been asked to step in at various times. It's unfortunate but their kind efforts to come up with something I really enjoy is leading to the opposite effect! I'm upset that they are forcing me into this drama and I feel like by asking me to get involved they are wanting me to decide on my own stagette plans. And the thing is I'm not that picky, I really think I'd enjoy most things so they don't have to go to war over this! I just don't know what to do anymore.... should I send one last email to the whole bunch saying just that? or leave it alone and hope that I don't keep getting dragged in? I don't want them all grumbling at each other at the stagette.