Let me start by saying I am not a dramatic girl. I hear brides here and there talk about kicking a BM out of their wedding and I think "Not that serious, if nothing else...She's just a space filler".
Well...Now I'm "That" Bride.
In 5 hours I'm getting on a plane to Las Vegas. We're doing a joint bach/bachelorette party there. One of my less-responsible BM's said she was going and we were all a little shocked, but happy she was coming with. She planned to bring her husband. The coordinators of this event have done a lot of work booking rooms, working with the clubs to get everyone in, putting down deposits, and making dinner reservations (awesome people).
So, this one BM confirmed the room but we thought it was suspicious when she quit answering emails about dinner, clubs. Then we told her yesterday she needs to check-in early for the flight so we can sit together. She says her hubby did it yesterday. I'm sorry, but there's a 24 hour limit on check ins 1. Red Flag.
This girl is also my stylist so I needed a spray tan. I was cutting it close so I said "Why dont you just bring the temp bottle to Vegas and I'll do it there?" She replies "Lets just meet at 8p instead." 8p?! 2. Red Flag
Questioning the check in thing, another BM asked her how she checked in early. She said she bought their tickets for a different flight. 5a on Delta. REALLY? 3. Red Flag
I walk into the salon at 8p after a terribly bad day and say "If one more thing happens to me today I'm going into a full-on fit of rage" and she starts FAKE crying. 4. Red Flag
She tells me her husband canceled their flights. Some bogus story about the emergency dentist.
Could you be any more inconsiderate? The people booked a room with another girl. Now that 1 girl is responsible for a 3 night stay in Vegas by herself. F*cked up.
These people do things like this all the time but I never thought they'd do it on this larger scale. To tell me NOT EVEN 24 HOURS BEFORE WE LEAVE?
I dont want to talk to her. Ever. Again. Dramatic? So what. She is inconsiderate and LIES.
Would you guys let this slide for the sake of a space filler or no?