I'm getting married in April and it's going to be a 45-50 guest wedding. It's my second marriage, and at my first wedding I had over 140 guests. We don't want that many people this time, nor am I friendly enough with all of those people to invite them. However, I know that once invites go out, word will travel and there will be some hurt feelings. What is the proper way to handle guests that won't be invited this time around?