How do you deal with a BM that is becoming a little overbearing? It's as though this is her wedding and she wants to run the show. She has already had her wedding and I think she wants to take over the planning of mine. My FI has just about had it with her. She has been complaining about the possible price of a BM dress to my sister the MOH ($79.99) yet she goes and gets a huge tattoo on her forearm (which is another issue itself) and I know they are not cheap since I have a few myself as does my FI. She is trying to take over the shower and the bachlorette party. My mom wants to do the shower and my sister wants to be involved in part of the bachlorette party since she can't be involved in all of it (she's only 16). She
is constatnly asking me all of these questions about this and that and I have told her that I don't know yet. There is more but it could get long and I don't want to write a novel lol. How do I deal with this but not get stressed out and not offend her??