http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_wedding-colors-dilemmareally?
a "dilemma"?
they are colors and decorations. Unless you tell me you are dying the BMs' hair to match - does anyone REALLY care?
Eh - this makes me sound like a bitchy old broad. but you know what? I am.