My MOH has been my friend since 3rd grade. We went to college together, and drifted after college, but always said we would be in each others weddings, so of course I asked her when I got engaged. I soon realized she has become someone different then what I remember. My Fiancé and I went to visit my MOH and her BF in my home town for an evening. She revealed to me that she is now experimenting with heavy drugs and tried to pressure me into trying them knowing I was against them all together. Next she proceeded to get extremely high/drunk, got out of a car her BF was driving and forced me and my Fiancé out with her, and said we had to walk home on a dangerous street with her or else she wouldn’t be in my wedding. After that, every time I have seen her she has always been on drugs, and the last time she came up to visit me, she informed me and my Fiancé she wants to experiment with Women, and came on to me the entire evening, and in front of my fiancé. People have said it’s rude to demote a MOH after you already asked her in your wedding, but these events seem to be extreme and are making me question having this type of person in my life all together. I don’t want to be the one to end a friendship, but I feel she won’t want to be friends if I ask her to step down from being my MOH. What do you think is appropriate? Am I being a bridezilla, or should I make sure my wedding party is full of girls I feel comfortable with? I am open to any suggestions, even if you think I am the crazy one, I just need to know what is the right thing to do. I could add more detail but this post is already long. I can give more info, if you want.