I may be setting myself up for disappointment here but hey -when is life ever not disappointing. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and I think this Christmas maybe the one! If anyone has any advice on what signs to look for whether it happens or not, feel free to share! We've had the marriage talk and it is something we both want and its been 3+ years so I feel its time. We were Christmas shopping the other day and I pointed to a jewlery store and said we could get my gift today if he wants to stop there and he just made a joke about it and said he wasn't allowed in those stores, that he only was allowed in lowes. -any suggestions/advice?