Hi all, So I am trying to decide if I should treat my girls to a mani/pedi or get them a real gift worth about the same value of the spa visit. I would love to be able to get them both but I really can't afford it and I don't want to just tack on a cheap gift that wouldn't be meaningful to the mani/pedis. I couldn't ask them to pay on their own, but I've always envisioned a spa day as part of the wedding so I'm not sure if it's selfish of me to give them the mani/pedi as their gift when they might not have cared about getting it otherwise.
If you were/are a bridesmaid, which would you prefer?