I am having a hard time accepting generosity and hope that my friends are not going above and beyond what they can afford. I know some of that is none of my bizness, I know that they love me and want me to have a great time, I know that when the tables were reveresed I did it all, but I was also 25 when I could pick up on a whim and go. Most of my friends are mothers now and have mortgages - I guess that serves me right for getting married last, lol j/k. The thing is, my Maid of Honor and close friend are planning tha bachorette party, I have a MOH and a Matron of honor no other girls. My goal from the start was to make the wedding process simple. Originally the girls were trying to get me tickets to the Country Music Festival in Tennesee in June but it's not something that can be planned in 4 months (year advance atleast). Aware that this was gonna cost money I figured its better off, how many girls wanna spend a weekend listening to music they may not like. Now the suggestion of Vegas has been put on the table. As much as I LOVE VEGAS I feel really bad that not everyone can come and that leaves alot of financial pressure on the rest. I am the easiest person to please b/c everything is my favorite. As much as they are ready and willing I feel like it's so much..... I am super grateful I just worry about the financial aspect of it all, even for myself. Am I being ridiculous?