First of all, Happy Thanksgiving! I hope that despite having to get into a wedding dress either in a couple of weeks or months, that we all enjoyed the day with no guilt
My frustration-my best friend from childhood told me that should would be willing to help out with wedding stuff, ie be my PA/bounce ideas off of...etc. She does live 5 hours away, but I really wanted her involved since we are not having a traditional wedding party. This was way back in August when we last spoke on the phone. I have called her/texted her/facebooked her many times. Hell, our 30th birthdays are on the same day and barely NOTHING from her. We are both in the same town as I speak right now and I facebooked her last week telling her when I would be home so I could show her pics of my dress and the venue, and nothing until last night, when she said that she wasn't going to be available which is fine, but this is how she always communicates. Last minute. I am only home a couple of times a year and I always let her know about a week in advance when I am going to to be home to see if she is available and it's always very last minute to tell me she can't hang out.
While I am not asking for much of her time, I just would like a phone call back from her. Is that too much to ask? The ONLY time I hear from her is when I text her like a bazillion times. I sent her a message over FB today telling her that it is frustrating that I make all of these attempts to get in touch with her, but nothing back. The few times I have heard from her, it's because she has been so busy, which is an excuse I can't tolerate, especially since we have been friends for so long. Even a quick text would be fine....
Am I totally overreacting? I asked her in the message if things were ok....It's not so much a wedding thing as much as a friendship that seems to becoming more and more distanced..
I feel like I am totally out of line, but I am really bummed by all of this.....