About 2 years ago I was engaged and my cousin was a bridesmaid. The engagement was called off and the relationship ended. I am now planning a wedding (w/ the right one this time) and am wondering if it would be rude to not ask my cousin to be in the wedding party again, just invite her to the wedding. Nothing bad has happened between us. We just never talk anymore... we live in completely diferent states, though we were close growing up...