My fiance just got a message on facebook from a "friend" who is really upset that we are having only family at our ceremony.. she went on and on about how good a friend he is to her and how he is like a brother even though they haven't really talked recently or seen each other in months and how she is going to come to the reception to "support us" even though she is really hurt... why if you are "such a good friend" would you not understand that we have a small venue and will only be having family at our wedding ceremony? why do you think you should be invited when not one of our other friends are invited? So irritated that someone who claims to be a good friend would say something like that and try to make us feel bad that we can't include everyone in our wedding ceremony.. its not like we don't want everyone we know there.. its just not feasible.. grrrrr. I hate selfish people!!!! Our wedding is not about you!!!!!