So, for hairstyles for the wedding, I am planning on suprising my fiance with wearing my hair down. Its long and thick, I just want it up and away from my face but I am going to wear it half up and down to make him happy. I have a veil to wear. My question is, what do I do about my bridesmaids, I have 6 and want to tell them do whatever they want, as long as its up, because I like the way that looks. But I dont want to seem too controlling, they are wearing matching dresses and shoes (in a dark purple - lapis according to David's Bridal). I also have a flower girl, and I think Im going to buy her a tiara to wear in her hair.
Anyways, might seem silly, but was hoping for some feedback or suggestions. Would it look ok with all the girls, some up, some down some half and half?