We're having a budget wedding, and can afford for the bare-bones of all the times we want to include and a few splurges in areas we really care about. The main way we reached out budget was by cutting little things that would be nice to have, butcfoldn't really justify.
Anyway, for Christmas my FI bought me a headband that I had be stalking online hoping to find a used one. I was thrilled and it gave me an idea, is there a tactful way to ask for small things for the wedding as presents? We have a lot of gift giving events coming up ( both our birthdays, we're both graduating, ect) and in general are hard people to buy for. I'm thinking of things like a cakes serving set, toasting glasses, a photo album for pictures later... I still need a garter but that one might be a little awkward.
So what do you ladies think? Is there a polite way to ask for these things or should I just pinch my pennies even tighter and buy them myself?