When we booked our vineyard venue we specifically asked if candles were ok to use in a centerpiece. Our coordinator said it was fine as long as they abide by fire safety standards (which ours do). In our contract it also says candles are fine...
4 days ago my coordinator tells me that candles are no longer allowed, the owner's decision, because they had a "problem" with another wedding. She says they're very strict on no candles AT ALL now and want me to switch to flameless, which I honestly think looks pretty cheesy and cheap.
Do I become Bridezilla and say it is printed in the contract that I can have candles and that's why I chose to book them? Do I go with flameless candles anyway and be flexible? Or do I waste money and switch my centerpieces all together? (which I REALLY can't afford)
By the way I already bought the centerpieces and candles and have specific details for my florist for my current candle lit centerpieces....
please HELP!