For those of you who are Catholic, and married a non Catholic, is it an issue in your marriage? Meaning does your spouse go to Mass with you, and if they don't, does it bother you? What about children? How will you explain to them why Daddy isn't Catholic?
The reason I'm asking is that this is something that has really been on my mind lately. My BF is loving, kind, caring, etc. He respects my religion, has done everything necessary for the annulment, and has agreed that our children will be raised Catholic, has agreed to the Catholic wedding, and has promised that he will attend Mass with me on a weekly basis. We will also attend his Methodist church. The one thing he has refused is to get involved with my church, in terms of giving his time. His time goes to "his" church.
While I greatly appreciate his concessions, I wonder if long term it will bother me that he doesn't believe. I asked him if he would consider becoming Catholic, and he said no. I asked why, and he started telling me certain things he does not like about the church. Well, for every single point he made, his feelings were based entirely on misinformation or utter fallacies. I was able to correct some of it, but he's still not gung ho about it.
I just wonder what I'm going to say to our kids when they are raised to believe that the Catholic church is the right thing, but they ask "why isn't Daddy Catholic then?". What do we say?
I'm kind of rambling, I know. I love my FI very much but I'm terrified that in the long term I will regret not marrying someone who doesn't share my faith.
How has it worked out in your marriages?