Ugh...I am starting to stress out about this.
First, I read you are supposed to send a separate invite to someone if they are over the age of 18 & still live at home. I never factored this in, but I don't think I've ever seen this happen in practice. I am obviously sending people their own invites if they've moved out, but I am not doing so if they are still at home.
Second, I didn't know if you send your officiant an invite. Mine is hired purely for the wedding -- so it's not as if we know her well or anything. I think I will verbally invite her, but the jury is still out on what to do here.
This whole ordeal kinda makes me regret having my BM do the invites, not because she did a bad job, but they are complicated invites that took forever to create so making a couple extras would be quite an undertaking & I am pretty sure she'd have my head!!
I know I am over-thinking this & most people will not think about all these things, but I still feel bad that I am not following the rules to a T. lol
Oh & pray I get a 100 guests -- this is another worry...!!