I'm not usually (ok never) on this board, but I have an RSVP question. Maybe you can help? Basically, our RSVP 'deadline' was today, and we're still waiting to hear from oh, like 45 people. And we only invited about 110...that's about 40% of our guests we're waiting on.
Most people I can just rule out right away (older relatives far away), my guy's MIA guests he'll have to deal with, but I have 3 friends who I still haven't heard from. The strange (sad?) part is that these three friends are close friends. One was/is supposed to be a bridesmaid, but that's another story.
How do I respectfully word the emails I'm going to send asking for their answer? I need to know by the end of the week, and if I haven't, I'll assume they're a no. I'm in another country too, so email is the best form of communication for me. I also pre-stamped the envelopes with the international postage, so I don't think it's the cost. Any thoughts? Advice? Samples of your angry letters to family? How did you track your people down?