So FI is thinking of joining the Navy. He has been thinking of this for a while. I told him that I don't want him to go but that I would support him if he chose to. We are planning to get married in April 2012 on a cruise to Puerto Vallarta. I was going to put the deposit for the cruise and the WC but now I don't know if we could get married then or not. Now I don't know what to do or where to start.