Okay, so this is going to sound silly but sorry I just don't know how this is handled. LOL So we are going to have a small wedding only inviting close friends and family just because of cost and we really just don't want just anyone there for such a special day. Anyways my question to y'all is do I invite anyone and everyone to the showers even the people that will not be invited to the wedding? Or is that just rude? To me I want the extended people to be a part of it but just not the wedding................