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Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?

Hi all, I'm new to this website...
Anyway, I'm not engaged yet, but my boyfriend is going to be asking me within the next year or 2 years. We've talked it over extensively so no, it's not just "wishful thinking".
The problem is, he lives in England, and I Iive right in the middle of the US. Now, we aren't sure yet where we are going to live - each country has it's own pros and cons and money may be an issue in the future - but I'm trying to hear some ideas as to what we can do for the wedding itself. What with families living on different continents and all.
We have thought about having everyone on a nice cruise, that way it's like halfway inbetween, but we don't want to be stuck on a ship with family on our honeymoon... I suppose we could do an Eastern coast wedding (during the Autumn of course!), I think that would be quite nice.
If anyone has any ideas at all, creative or not, as to where or how we should have the wedding, throw em my way!
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  • edited December 2011
    Don't worry about it until he proposes. Two years before he proposes, not even the date of the wedding, is a pretty long time to plan anything in life.
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:706465c9-0f63-4435-9bfa-9325b2bdcbbd">Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hi all, I'm new to this website... Anyway, I'm not engaged yet, but my boyfriend is going to be asking me within the next year or 2 years. We've talked it over extensively so no, it's not just "wishful thinking". The problem is, he lives in England, and I Iive right in the middle of the US. Now, we aren't sure yet where we are going to live - each country has it's own pros and cons and money may be an issue in the future - but I'm trying to hear some ideas as to what we can do for the wedding itself. What with families living on different continents and all. We have thought about having everyone on a nice cruise, that way it's like halfway inbetween, but we don't want to be stuck on a ship with family on our honeymoon... I suppose we could do an Eastern coast wedding (during the Autumn of course!), I think that would be quite nice. If anyone has any ideas at all, creative or not, as to where or how we should have the wedding, throw em my way!
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>If you're not even going to be engaged for two years, now is not the time to worry about anything wedding related.

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  • edited December 2011
    Figure it out when he asks you in 2 years. I don't mean to be snarky... but yeah. 

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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:706465c9-0f63-4435-9bfa-9325b2bdcbbd">Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hi all, I'm new to this website... <strong>Anyway, I'm not engaged yet, but my boyfriend is going to be asking me within the next year or 2 years.</strong> We've talked it over extensively so no, it's not just "wishful thinking". The problem is, he lives in England, and I Iive right in the middle of the US. Now, we aren't sure yet where we are going to live - each country has it's own pros and cons and money may be an issue in the future - but I'm trying to hear some ideas as to what we can do for the wedding itself. What with families living on different continents and all. We have thought about having everyone on a nice cruise, that way it's like halfway inbetween, but we don't want to be stuck on a ship with family on our honeymoon... I suppose we could do an Eastern coast wedding (during the Autumn of course!), I think that would be quite nice. If anyone has any ideas at all, creative or not, as to where or how we should have the wedding, throw em my way!
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    This sounds like a very urgent problem. 
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    *headdesk*
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    I mean to be snarky. Tongue out
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  • peekaboo2011peekaboo2011 Washington, DC member
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    This thread makes me realize that my lolcat library has seriously been depleted.  There's a lolcat for this.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:1102a213-52d8-493d-a6d0-34266c7e438e">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]This thread makes me realize that my lolcat library has seriously been depleted.  There's a lolcat for this.
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    Does it look like this?


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    Actually, I think it was this one :)
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  • kaitlynmichellekaitlynmichelle British Columbia member
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    I refuse to suggest ideas for a wedding when you are not engaged right now.

    I will however talk to you of other things, such as Harry Potter or how yummy potatoes are with cheese.
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm not exactly sure why this question is being asked. 2 year until he proposes? Why don't you just wait?


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  • edited December 2011
    I wouldn't concern yourself with a wedding right now. The other girls are right, if a proposal is about 2 years away there is no rush to plan a wedding. Wait until you're engaged and for now maybe the two of you can discuss where you want to live first.
  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone for the advice! Even though there was not ONE original thought in there. (To be honest, I'm rather surprised. Most of the time on forums you usually get at least one sincere response)

    We decided we would have two simple weddings, the larger one being in England, to keep costs down. It was a lot of fun talking to him about it, because we only get to talk voice-to-voice every so often (we talk throughout the day through blackberry messenger only).

    It brings us both much joy imagining the day when we will finally get to be together for the rest of our lives. Meeting in person only a couple of times per year is a difficult thing you know. I suppose you wouldn't know that, though. Most of you probably get to see your beloved all the time. I bet you get sick of being together sometimes. I pity you.
  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    I love when posters act all disappointed in us when they don't get the answers they want.

    And she's criticizing us for lack of originality?

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  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    edited December 2011
    There were a few sincere, I'll admit that now that I've gotten my point across.
    Thanks for the real response, and I'm glad that you have a proper relatioship with your man. :)

    I'm done on this thread since I've already figured out what we are going to do.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:98a66629-6e37-4813-a2ef-94311b91d3be">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]There were a few sincere, I'll admit that now that I've gotten my point across. Thanks for the real response, and I'm glad that you have a proper relatioship with your man. :) I'm done on this thread since I've already figured out what we are going to do.
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    So not only are you so crazy as to plan before getting engaged, you are also planning TWO weddings.  You are so original.  Congratulations!

    I definitely don't have a proper relationship with MY man.  It must be because I see him every day.  That is sure to ruin a relationship. 
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:98a66629-6e37-4813-a2ef-94311b91d3be">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]There were a few sincere, I'll admit that now that I've gotten my point across. Thanks for the real response, and I'm glad that you have a proper relatioship with your man. :) I'm done on this thread since I've already figured out what we are going to do.
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    What point? I hope you're done with this board too.
    I'm not good at feelings.

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  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:dd6adb50-86e7-47f3-a085-39156445602f">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : Just curious, why do you need to know so early in advance though?  Even people who are engaged and don't plan on getting married for two years don't plan their wedding right away.  You said you won't be engaged for a long time, so really, there's no rush.  My BF and I have agreed that we will have a long engagement.  We've also decided that we will wait to book a venue for at least a few months because in a 2 year engagement, there is no need to start doing things right away.  We'd only book the venue in order to set the date and get it out of the way. Also, I have a comment about the two wedding thing.  I think it's a bad idea.  A friend of mine had that idea, I think.  She did a quick surprise ceremony in the US, and told everyone that her and her DH would have the big one in Scotland later.  It's been two years and they've bought a house, she's a full time student, and I doubt throwing ANOTHER wedding is on their radar.  Have one in whatever country you want.  Those closest to you will come.
    Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

    We don't NEED to plan the wedding yet of course. And we're not even planning properly, just exchanging ideas. If it's a good idea, why wait to talk about it? Besides, I like dreaming of the day. It's a tying together of everything we've been through these past 2 years, it's a place I never would have imagined we would make it to. I don't know any details, this is literally the ONLY thing I have ever asked about, so I don't really understand why people are acting like I'm hardcore planning every detail. Some people like to plan ahead, some like to take their time. So really, it's just a matter of preferences.

    That's a good point, things could happen inbetween the two weddings. I did mention that, knowing how we handle things, we would probably have the first wedding and then not even be bothered to have the second one. It would just be a show for family, wouldn't it? I'm sure, though, if you plan it properly it would be just fine. And I'm sure they're still happy together even though they haven't gotten around to having a second one!
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:04c3564e-36f9-4ae3-9085-0671a13d5416">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : We don't NEED to plan the wedding yet of course. And we're not even planning properly, just exchanging ideas. If it's a good idea, why wait to talk about it? Besides, I like dreaming of the day. It's a tying together of everything we've been through these past 2 years, it's a place I never would have imagined we would make it to. I don't know any details, this is literally the ONLY thing I have ever asked about, so I don't really understand why people are acting like I'm hardcore planning every detail. <u>Some people like to plan ahead</u>, some like to take their time. So really, it's just a matter of preferences.

    That's a good point, things could happen inbetween the two weddings. I did mention that, knowing how we handle things, we would probably have the first wedding and then not even be bothered to have the second one. <u>It would just be a show for family, wouldn't it?</u> I'm sure, though, if you plan it properly it would be just fine. And I'm sure they're still happy together even though they haven't gotten around to having a second one!
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    I thought you were leaving.  All I hear is <a href="#" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', 'ef05a091-73fb-4d66-8d56-a0958f67e9dc', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/15/13/ef05a091-73fb-4d66-8d56-a0958f67e9dc.medium.gif" alt="" /></a>.
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    You are also the first person who likes to plan ahead in life.  <a href="#" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', '701f5f80-c940-45f1-ac8c-8eef66c1f64b', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/0/12/701f5f80-c940-45f1-ac8c-8eef66c1f64b.medium.gif" alt="" /></a>

    And you are going to have a 2nd wedding for show?  Niiiiice. 
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  • edited December 2011
    I do have something for her, but it ain't puppies and rainbows.  I save those for my monkey babies. 
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  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:56e47b40-e007-4301-bf17-269796e5d1d8">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I do have something for her, but it ain't puppies and rainbows.  I save those for my monkey babies. 
    Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

    It seems like you have taken a loathing to me. What have I done? It doesn't bother me too much since you are a stranger, but I want to know what is going through your mind. Don't hesitate to vent it all out
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:c9272f37-1529-4dc9-8655-7342686eb810">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : <strong>It seems like you have taken a loathing to me.</strong> What have I done? It doesn't bother me too much since you are a stranger, but I want to know what is going through your mind. Don't hesitate to vent it all out
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    What??
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : I thought you were leaving.  All I hear is . You are also the first person who likes to plan ahead in life.   And you are going to have a 2nd wedding for show?  Niiiiice. 
    Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

    Sorry, I meant to quote this one, not the puppy/rainbown one.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:c9272f37-1529-4dc9-8655-7342686eb810">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : It seems like you have taken a loathing to me. What have I done? It doesn't bother me too much since you are a stranger, but I want to know what is going through your mind. Don't hesitate to vent it all out
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]
    <div>
    </div><div>Yeah, Mutley.  Don't hesitate to tell her how you really feel.</div><div>
    </div><div>Lulz.</div>
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    What just even happened. 



  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:c9272f37-1529-4dc9-8655-7342686eb810">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : It seems like you have taken a loathing to me. What have I done? It doesn't bother me too much since you are a stranger, but I want to know what is going through your mind. Don't hesitate to vent it all out
    Posted by kat1822[/QUOTE]

    Taken a loathing to you?  Interesting phrase. 

    I don't feel an intense dislike or disgust for you.  I think you are getting so far ahead of yourself that it is ridiculous.  I have taken to MOCKING you.  I am laughing AT you because you are unreal to be worrying about where to have your wedding that is at least 3 years away, and even more ridiculous, when getting engaged is still even 2 years out.  Then, I mocked you further for coming up with the solution of having two weddings.  You can only have ONE wedding, unless you get divorced in between those two weddings.  So as to the loathing, sweetie, you aren't worth my time. 
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  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    This is a waste of my time. I don't understand, is this amusing to all of you or are you just bored? I genuinely don't know why people have to be pointlessly... Don't even know what the word is. It's not really mean, but I guess it's just... petty. Petty indeed. Grow up, maybe? Go play with your children or do something with your spouse instead of acting like I'm an idiot or something.
  • SKP82SKP82 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:a51bb499-e325-4972-a261-239cadbd2b32">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : Taken a loathing to you?  Interesting phrase.  I don't feel an intense dislike or disgust for you.  I think you are getting so far ahead of yourself that it is ridiculous.  I<strong> have taken to MOCKING you.  I am laughing AT you</strong> because you are unreal to be worrying about where to have your wedding that is at least 3 years away, when getting engaged is still even 2 years out.  Then, I mocked you further for coming up with the solution of having two weddings.  You can only have ONE wedding, unless you get divorced in between those two weddings.  <strong>So as to the loathing, sweetie, you aren't worth my time. 
    </strong>Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

    Mutley FTW, yet again. 
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  • kat1822kat1822 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_trans-atlantic-marriage-venue?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:c4d2cd7c-037b-46d2-b7b8-57ea53c61953Post:a51bb499-e325-4972-a261-239cadbd2b32">Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Trans-Atlantic marriage! Venue? : Taken a loathing to you?  Interesting phrase.  I don't feel an intense dislike or disgust for you.  I think you are getting so far ahead of yourself that it is ridiculous.  I have taken to MOCKING you.  I am laughing AT you because you are unreal to be worrying about where to have your wedding that is at least 3 years away, and even more so ridiculous, when getting engaged is still even 2 years out.  Then, I mocked you further for coming up with the solution of having two weddings.  You can only have ONE wedding, unless you get divorced in between those two weddings.  So as to the loathing, sweetie, you aren't worth my time. 
    Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

    Fair enough on the mocking part.
    Why can't we have two? My family would not be able to make it to the England one as they are poor. We are not signing a marriage certificate because we don't need to, so it is not a "legal" thing. We don't answer to the authority of government. So therefore in either case it's just a ceremony to give joy to family members.
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