I think I already know what I'm going to do, but figured I'd ask for outside opinions...
I asked my girls to be in my wedding in the last few weeks. I have 6 girls, one of whom is my cousin whose wedding I was in last year. We have gotten very close the past few years so I wanted her to be in the wedding as well. However, I have another cousin that I grew up with. We used to talk about being in each others weddings all the time. Over the past 3-4 years, we have grown apart and barely speak anymore. After asking my current girls, I still feel like my other cousin is "missing." I also didn't want to initially ask her because she missed cousin #1s wedding because it was her college's senior week, and that left me with a bad feeling.
Anyway, I'm not sure if I should ask her. My mom said that since I keep feeling this way, my WP is clearly not complete. We don't have even number of people on sides, so adding an additional BM isnt a big deal to me. I would have 7 BM, which is a lot, which means 7 bouquets and 7 sets of gifts and additional drama.
Anyone see things overwhelmingly in favor of asking vs not asking? Thanks..