Hi ladies! So my one and only sister is my MOH. To be totally honest I really didnt want her but, I felt obligated, we r not close plus i dont think we like each other but have love for each other cuz we r sisters. I was hers (23 yrs ago) when I was 17 and not a clue what to do, so my mom and the other BM"s stepped up to throw her a bachelortte party. We has a lil girls night at her house with food and drinks, mani/pedi's etc. Well she has always said she wanted to mine but I never said yes or no. When I got engaged 1 1/2 yrs ago she was so happy to finally be a MOH. Stupid me didnt have the nerve to to say NO!! Well she hasnt done a single thing to help me with planning, she didnt even go with me to find my dress. It was like pulling teeth to get her to get hers and when we did she was a b**** about it. I told her to get whatever she wanted as long as it was black. I was trying to be cool about the whole thing. Oh i forgot to mention that she is the only one standing up because i kno how that the more ppl stand up the more drama. Well as my MOH she should be the one to throw the bridal shower and bach party..from the things I've read. My mom..god bless her... has done everything for the shower, even pay for it. Now its time for bach party and of course has not even attempted to plan anything. She did send me a text last week to see if it was i even wanted the party etc. I have planned this entire wedding by myself and refuse to help plan a bach party. She has made it seem its such a inconvenience to be the MOH. My wedding is about 5 wks away and i dont want any regrets on that day but i already have a HUGE one.. my very own sister. I talked to her today and I said to her u havent help me do a thing she had the nerve to say to me i dont have time and I have incurred expense (dress and shoes, which was under $200) for this wedding. I am appalled!! My feeling are so hurt by her and I'm afraid I'm growing to hate her, which is so not my nature. What do I do..let things ride till after or what I Need advice ASAP...