This will be my second marriage and his first, and I have no idea where to even start in planning our wedding, Not only am I older then he is, he has a six year old son and my children are all grown. Im Afro-American and he is Puerto Rican, I want a Cathlic wedding, he wants no part of it. I cant even talk him into going to church. His parents cant stand each other, and mine are dead. So far the only thing we have in common is we both do not like our sisters, and we love each other, If this situation was not so funny I would be crying right now,