I'm a little confused at reading some of these posts on here. I see some people having MOH issues, like they aren't helping planning a bridal shower, or they don't seem interested or even want to help. But then I see people's response stating that they don't have to help.
I was always under the impression of that's why you ask someone to be your MOH, is so that they can help you and take some stress off of you. I'm confused cause I see sites like The Knot have MOH duties list. And past weddings I've been to, all of the MOH's have helped and planned the bachorlorette party and bridal shower. Everyone I know says that that's what they do. Maybe I'm old fashioned/maybe this is a modern thing. I was just curious that's all.