Some background - last year FI got a DWI, totaled his car, and didn't get another car. He just rode his bike, took the bus, or borrowed his mother's car. At the time, FI and FMIL lived in the same neighborhood. For the most part the only thing he needed a car for was to pick up his son from school. FMIL took him in the morning, FI would borrow her car to pick him up in the afternoon. FI doesn't have a job...he's on disability due to having lupus. Disability checks are barely enough to live off of so there's no way he could have bought a car himself. He went to court for the DWI in April and was told he couldn't drive a car without a blow device installed on it. No more borrowing FMIL's car. I was also not working at the time so I started picking up his son. Worked fine until I started working again and FI moved into my house, about 10 miles from FMIL. She got sick of picking up his son and taking him to my house so she went and bought FI a car.
Here's the part that irritates me - she has decided that the car is our wedding present. Maybe I'm being selfish, but I think wedding presents should have something to do with us and our marriage. It's FI's fault that he didn't have a car, had nothing to do with me, and is completely due to his own stupidity (was waaaay drunk, doing emergency brake turns, and hit a crosswalk pole about 1 minute from his house). Is it wrong for me to be mad about this?