hi, i have been engaged for a few weeks now . after he first purposed i know i overwhelmed him with wedding things. so i let things cooled off and apologized for it he said that it was fine and he understood but in those weeks i was bringing up ideas he did not like a single one of them and it seems like he is fighting tooth and nail over it all. even when we was just discussing budget he brought up paying for all the tuxes and dresses and i was like well i'm not sure that we could afford them and he was like well we just won't have them then. I really don't know what to do we can't even get past the budget without it becoming an argument. and then he acts like since he purposed that it's done and over with. i'm really not sure what to do to get him on the same page when all he wants to do is nit-pick i've already compermised a lot of things but i'm not going to have some hill billy show down i want him to be involved but i'd still like to have the wedding of my dreams without having to give in to all his tacky needs just because he doesn't want a very big wedding.
HELP!