Earlier, I saw a posting about asking for cash or gift cards in lieu of presents (I know...it's rude to even mention presents!) but I'm in a pickle. My fiancee and I are moving to St. Maarten in two weeks (he's going to med school, I'm teaching at a prep school) and we'll be there for about three years. We only had two slots to choose from to get married---April 29th or August 12th--because that's the only time we have more than 2 consecutive days off together.
We're coming back to the states to get married in Augusta, GA (his hometown) and we realized that it will probably cost us well into the hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars to actually get the gifts back to the island...and we'll have to pay that again when we ship them BACK to the states when we leave.
I really, really want to register but I don't want to a.) leave all of our gifts at my parent's house until we're back in the states two years later or b.) pay alllll of that money to ship them to St. Maarten. I mean, it's two of us living off of a teacher's salary and some student loans. Should we spread the word that cash/gift cards would be easiest, or just leave any gifts we receive in the states until we can use them in 2013?
Sorry I'm long-winded---but what might be a good course of action for us?