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Scary dreams! Long but kinda funny..

When I was in college (and for a few years after), I had these panicky dreams where a paper was due in two hours, I hadn't started yet, and I couldn't quite get around to starting, and it was so late at night and I didn't even know what the paper topic was because I hadn't paid attention or opened a book all semester... ahhhh!  

Now, I have the same dreams, but the theme is weddings.  It's always the wedding day and lots of important stuff isn't done (like my dress).  Last night, it was that my Save the Dates had gone out, but my invitations hadn't.  I suddenly realized that the wedding was going to start in like, less than an hour. Guests showed up (since they got the STDs) and I felt like a douche for being the only bride in the world who never sent invitations. The chairs weren't set up for the ceremony and I suddenly realized that I hadn't even contacted the rental company to get them.  I didn't have a veil and my dress was at the store.  I managed to delay the wedding 2 hours to fix everything.  At the bridal store, something was wrong with the dress.  I didn't have time to get a veil so I resolved to just use the scraps of tulle that my stepmother has leftover from her wedding (which is really in her closet), and to just stick it on my head as is since there was no time to make it look nice (wtf, right?).  I finally got my dress and headed back to the wedding site, and started getting the chairs out, but it was too late!  The guests were arriving again... ahhhhhh!

I know it's the stress and excitement of having so much to prepare for one day, and always wondering if I'm forgetting something.  

Does anyone else have these dreams?  I wouldn't wish them on any of you.  They are stressful.
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Re: Scary dreams! Long but kinda funny..

  • yeah have had tons like these! The most often one is about my dress! The very first dream I had was the wedding day and I was just arriving to the ceremony and I realized that I didn't have a dress. Not that I didn't have one with me but that i hadn't found one and all the stores were closed as it was so late...thankfully I woke up before i knew if the ceremony happened or not! The next dream, it was an hour before the ceremony and I realized I forgot to get my dress altered and it was way to big and I couldn't wear it and was trying to find something else white to wear! The dream after was that I had the dress altered but I forgot to ask the seamstress to create a bustle so after the ceremony I realized this and had no way to put up all the fabric in the back and I was having to carry it in my arm!

    Thankfully i just got my dress yesterday, back the seamstress 100% perfect and now I think the dreams will die down! 19 days! I think our bodies are just so overworked and there are so many hundreds of things we are trying to remember and keep track of that we are doing it in our sleep. I am so looking forward to the wedding but I'm really looking forward to being able to get my nights back again and enjoy spending some quality and relaxing time with my new hubby!

    The dreams will die down I promise! Good luck and try to breathe! I find listening to some classical music with headphones helps and just close your eyes. Even for just 5 minutes it lowers your blood pressure I think!
  • My dream has always been that it's the day of the wedding and I forgot everything--dress, flowers, cake, fiancee, etc., but somehow knew to come to the venue where everyone was waiting for me.

    One time a couple of weeks ago I had a dream that I agreed to do a group wedding, in addition to forgetting that it was my wedding day.
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