I've been asked to be a bridesmaid in two weddings next summer, two friends from high school are getting married and I really am excited for both of them!! Well.. here's the situation..
"Friend A" who got engaged in the fall.. She's the first is from a group of friends that said one night senior year we would stay friends forever and be in each other's weddings. It's been 6 years since we graduated high school, and I've seen her every 6 months or so, and I've met her fiance once about 3 years ago.
"Friend B" is one of my best friends. I know her family, I know her fiance and some of his friends and it's been a long time coming! I've known I was gonna be one of her bridesmaids for months now and she only just got engaged this week!
My problem is now that I'm moving to Florida for work and both weddings are 'home' in Pennsylvania. While looking up articles about being a long distance bridesmaid, I had this overwhelming feeling of guilt... I'm actively trying to think of coming home to go dress shopping and be at the bridal shower fror Friend B.... but I feel like I constantly remind myself about friend A. Is it unfair that I spend so much time and effort being there for Friend B, but not for Friend A?