Okay so my Fiance and I already live together, everything in our house is new and we bought ourselves and we dont really need anything.So we were thinking instead of the usual "Bridal shower" we were thinking of having an engagement party, guys and girls and just ask people to put money on our honeymoon (through AAA). Is that to much to ask for? I thought it'd be better then getting gifts that we dont want or need. We told my fiances sister about it and she said we cant do that because it is rude. Im just curious what u girls though of it