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Nervous

Ive just gotten engaged and it seem like everyone has an opinion on how things should go.. I feel that  you only get married once so i wont it dont the right way.. but its nerve recking at the same time.. it makes me just want to go to the courts and say forget the Big wedding:(Cry

Re: Nervous

  • Take a deep breath and repeat, repeat. It will all be okay. Planning is fun, don't sweat the small stuff. There is not right or wrong way to plan a wedding, it is your day, and you can make it what you want it to be.

    There will be bumps in the road along the way and perhaps the day of, but in the grand scheme of things, what matters at the end of the day is that you are married with all of your family and friends with you. No one is going to notice minor issues anyway. Just roll with the punches and let the small things go.
  • As long as its legal, you have the people YOU want there, and you are a good hostess, then you did it the right way. The rest of that stuff (favors, centerpieces, programs, place cards, bridal party, etc) are all unnecessary. 
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  • Decide what YOU want before you talk to anyone else.  Have you FI think about what HE wants.  Then talk and figure out where you need to compromise.  Stick with what you want, assuming it's not rude, of course. 
  • What helped me was not trying to figure out the whole picture all at one.
    Figure out what you must as you go along and everything else will fall into place.
    This is what I did and I never got stressed out.

    This is you and your FIs day...have the wedding you two want not what anyone else wants.  Figure out what you two want and stick to your guns :)
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