ok, so the basic run down goes like this... my Fi's parents got devorced in a very nastey and public way and as such (although they have both remarried) they continue to hate each other with a seething passion that can be felt in the room. They have both agreed not to start any drama at the wedding.
In an effort to make things easy and much less stressful, I am considering having a brunch with my parents and one set of the in-laws, then the rehersal and set up of the ceremony site, follwed by dinner with my parents and the other set of in-laws. As thoes involved will be paying for their own meals I would opened it up for our BM/GMs to be at either or both meals and of course at the rehersal itself.
Am I trying to cram too much into too short a period of time or does this sould acceptable in the efforts of.. well... keeping the drama to a minium?
We are also forgoing his dance with his mom since he views both women as his mom and don't want to deal with a hissy fit. ( IE /> "You're not his mother" stuff)