So I realize I'm putting myself out there to vent on here, but I have a rule about not venting to family about my fiance. So this past week we were supposed to go to a birthday party together last night, I didn't really want to go, with so much coming up (we are 30 days out from the big day), I just wanted to relax with our daughter. But he made a deal about it, so I got a sitter......then he said nevermind I made plans with "the guys". Whatever....I was irritated. But I had a blast yesterday with our little girl. Her and I left the house around 3pm and got home at 8, stayed up til 11 watching a movie.
At 7am I am woken up by our dog going nuts, coming to find out my lovely fiance is just getting home. I say "uh, are you just getting home??" He says, "I sent you a text". WTF? So I go check my phone, text at 5am telling me where he is. At another friends house.
Now backstory, him and I literally barely ever fight, about anything. We have our annoyances with each other from time to time, but we get over them easily. So when he comes upstairs, and goes to hug me I am fuming. I told him the behavior was unacceptable, for no reason should he be out until 7am. We are in our 30's for crying out loud. If I stayed out that late, my stuff would be waiting on the front porch, no doubt.
I am by no means a nagging, bitchy girl....but I kinda think I have a right to be pissed off!!!! Okay, be nice ladies, any other advice on how to handle the situation. Because his response to my calmly telling him I was unhappy (as I am not going to yell at him in front of our little girl), was to go back downstairs and go to sleep....because obviously its rough to party like a rock start. GRRR.