Now I know that all my bridesmaid has to do is show up dressed to the wedding. I get that.
I still have hurt feelings. She told me the other day she won't make it to my bachelorette party because she is to busy. She has a shower to go to that day at like noon. The party doesn't start until 6:30, and we are only going out to dinner and hanging out at my sisters.
I was pretty low key about dresses. I just picked the color. She didn't order the dress until late Jan. This after she asked if she could just wear slacks and a button down top.
For shoes, I just said black. She asked if she could actually wear tennis shoes because they were black. Payless has black shoes for under $20. I'll even buy them for her.
She hasn't once asked for help. I get that it's not a requirement of the bridesmaid, but it would have been nice. The other BM have. Even the one who lives out of state has helped more.
She never calls me to ask how things are going. I have to call her to tell her things. We've been friends, although maybe not so much anymore, since for 20+ years.
I kind of regret asking her, but FI wanted even numbers, and she is my oldest friend so I thought things would be fine.
Oh well.....lesson learned.
And in 15 days none of this will matter.
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