Hey guys! I didn't mean the day was all about me when I said that it was my special day! I know it's his day to and I'm all about compromise; he's the one who won't! He won't budge on anything including the colors! I have picked several different colors I would be okay with but he only wants his!! I LOVE that he's involoved, but I want it to be about me to! I just don't know how to tell him lovingly to let me help too!!!