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Aaaaaand I'm over it.

Wonderw1feWonderw1fe
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I know I said I wouldn't be on for a while, but guess what: I lied. Yesterday was probably the most pivotal day of my life. So I have 2 important things to say.

1- For lack of a better phrase, I had a religious experience yesterday. I have been praying for this not to be cancer, but the tidal wave of love/vibes/prayers/ whatever has been more of an answer than I could have hoped for. I'm overwhelmed and in a good way. Believe it or not, I feel blessed and, crazily enough, happy. I fell asleep last night with a smile on my face, and woke up this morning refreshed. Which brings me to #2.

2- You know what? Fvkc this cancer. It does not get to dictate how I feel or what I get to do. I've been approaching this all wrong. I've been letting the pain and the fear keep me down, order me around and worry me into a tizzy. But that is done. If I want to laugh, joke, be silly, etc. I will. I came to this epiphany yesterday when the following conversation took place. I got a call from a friend while all of our people were at our house:

Friend: OMG, Ww, are you alright?
Me: No, really, I'm not. But I will be. Turns out I have cancer.
[outburst of laughter and loud conversation around me]
Friend [long pause]: What now? You have cancer?
Me: Yeah, I do.
Friend [longer pause]: Um... are you having a... party??
Me: Apparently I am!
Friend [absolutely nonplussed]: So let me get this straight. You have cancer, and you're having a party.
Me: Well, hiefer, I didn't PLAN on having the cancer OR the party, but it seems I now have both.
Friend: Well, I'll be there in half an hour! 

I plan to treat this cancer with the utmost distain and disrespect. I plan to ridicule it at every opportunity. I will not revere it or bow to it. Sht. Y'all are right. This thing picked the wrong btch.
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  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    ::applause::
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  • katorigasukikatorigasuki
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    ::loves this::

    everyone is right.  Cancer choose the wrong bitch to fck with.

    we love you and obviously so do your friends.  you got it made, woman.
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    http://wiki.uky.edu/blackboard/supportimages/thumbs_up.jpg

    ...that's all I've got to say about that.
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    that's what i thought you would say.  and "disdain" is spelled with two d's, not a t.

    btw, i would like to know how mil handles it.
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  • arbolitaarbolita
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    I think that is the perfect attitude to have, and I would expect nothing  less from you.
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  • *Candi**Candi* member
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    yes, yes, yes! THIS is Ww. 
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  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    I rate this post excellent times infinity.

    Ww, it's good to have you back.  I say we throw you another party here.  I'll bring the Taco Bell!

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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    I'll bring some dessert!

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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    I'm loving this.

    It's just a little cancer. You're a tough btch. You're going to kick it's ass.
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    ::standing ovation::

    This is an excellent way to approach it, Ww.
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  • SchmoopitaSchmoopita member
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    Yay! Cancer won't know what hit it!

    Nico- love the siggy!


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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
    Eighth Anniversary 5000 Comments 100 Love Its First Answer

    This is the truth.

    And I picked up an old friend on my way in today for our little party:

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    I just a friendly gal looking for options.

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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    HA!  This is more emotional for me than yesterday's verdict.

    I love your attitude and outlook Ww.  This will be very important in how you live.  ::HUGE HIGH FIVE::
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  • A.NonnieMouseA.NonnieMouse member
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    Sounds like a good plan.  Stressing and being upset aren't good for you anyway.  Fight the tumor!
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Yay for the attitude.  Cancer did pick the wrong b!tch.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    Sounds like an awesome plan. It's what I did--took a more humorous, "fvck you too" approach that my doctor absolutely hated. To the day I still go back to her every year and say, "Okay, doc, tell me if I'm dying again," and she tells me to stop saying it. But you know what? It's a hell of a lot better to take your approach than to let it defeat you and bring you down.

    So throw your party and have an awesome time.
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